Where grit meets gratitude: How Brown water polo inspires two alums to give back

Toby Espinosa ’12 and Cyrus Mojdehi ’13 are paying it forward so future student-athletes can benefit from the varsity team experience.

With just seconds left on the shot clock, six teammates are surging through the water as the ball arcs toward the goal—the crowd rises with a roar, and a sharp whistle pierces the air. 

For Toby Espinosa ’12 and Cyrus Mojdehi ’13, exhilarating water polo moments like this defined their Brown experience. Not only because of the number of hours they spent treading water in the pool, but because of the lessons and lifelong friendships that the varsity sport gave them. 

They may not have known it at the time, but with every match, they were building skills that would transform them into the business leaders—and philanthropists—that they are today. 

Toby Espinosa ’12 playing water polo
Toby Espinosa ’12 in action, playing a varsity water polo match during his time at Brown.

 

Building lifelong friendships and memories as teammates 

Espinosa and Mojdehi both came to College Hill from California. Like many student-athletes, bonding with teammates was a meaningful way for them to make fast friends in a new place. 

“The team was an immediate source of comfort and family,” says Mojdehi. “It meant a lot to be able to start school with a strong group of friends that were highly motivated, had a lot of the same interests, and just really took care of each other.”

“We’d get back to campus on Sunday afternoons after a weekend of tournaments, and the whole crew would slowly walk over to SciLi or the Rock,” Espinosa remembers. “You’d have to study for eight hours, get up the next day, and do it all over again. It gave us a real sense of camaraderie, and helped build a strong work ethic.” 

These two alums have seen Brown’s varsity water polo resources come a long way—during their time on campus, there wasn’t even a home pool for the team to use. After the Smith Swim Center was closed in 2007, teams practiced in a temporary aquatics center—known as “the bubble” because of its inflatable dome—with an above-ground pool that wasn’t quite regulation size. With no home games, they had to spend a lot of time on the road every weekend. 

When Brown’s Katherine Moran Coleman Aquatics Center opened in early 2012—providing the Bears with another Olympic-sized pool—it was a game-changer. Mojdehi even took a semester off, delaying graduation, so he’d have a chance to use it. 

“It was really special to be the first group in there,” he says. “It took our training to the next level and fostered a new sense of community. We were always proud to represent the University, but it was such a different experience being in a real facility. It was definitely worth staying for.”

Cyrus Mojdehi '13 playing water polo
Cyrus Mojdehi ’13, shown here competing as a student at Brown, stayed for an extra semester at Brown in order to be able to play water polo in the Katherine Moran Coleman Aquatics Center.

 

Carrying lessons from water polo into careers and philanthropy

Fast forward just over a decade, and these two Brunonians are both far from College Hill pursuing successful careers. Espinosa is DoorDash’s vice president of ads, after joining the company in San Francisco as one of their first employees. Mojdehi took an entrepreneurial path in North Carolina—he’s co-founder of Wickenden Partners and president of Northway Homes, which he co-founded with Daniel Hirschberg ’15, who played varsity tennis at Brown. 

Both Espinosa and Mojdehi credit playing on a varsity team during college as the foundation of their early professional success. The grit, discipline, resilience, and teamwork they honed in the pool continues to run deep in their lives today. 

“Water polo absolutely set me up for the career I’ve had at DoorDash,” says Espinosa. “It gave me a little bit of chip on my shoulder that has made me who I am.”

“My willingness to tolerate risk and the potential pain that comes with entrepreneurship—that all came from water polo,” explains Mojdehi. “When you had to get out of bed at 6 a.m. and it’s 20 degrees outside. Or the way we’d prepare before a big game—I will never forget those moments, because there’s no better feeling than being as prepared as possible and then seeing the end result. I wouldn’t have this much success at this point in my life without my Brown water polo experience.”

“ I wouldn’t have this much success at this point in my life without my Brown water polo experience. ”

Cyrus Mojdehi ’13

Espinosa and Mojdehi have translated their gratitude into philanthropy—each paying it forward for current and future players by making generous gifts to Brown’s Athletics Annual Fund and the men’s water polo endowment.  

While the Athletics Annual Fund provides crucial immediate-use funds for the team, the endowment was established to sustain the long-term strength and competitiveness of Brown’s water polo program. It provides the permanent financial support that ensures both the men’s and women’s teams have the recruitment, coaching, training, and resources they need for years to come. 

For Espinosa and Mojdehi, a major motivating factor behind their giving was supporting—and keeping—Head Coaching Chair for Water Polo Felix Mercado at the helm of the team. Both alums were amongst the earliest recruits for Mercado when he first started coaching at Brown.

“I personally owe a lot to Felix, and I think that without him Brown water polo would not be where it is today,” says Espinosa. “He has a sense of care that runs deeper than just a scoreboard. I think the longevity of having him around is very important for Brown water polo’s success."

“ I personally owe a lot to Felix, and I think that without him Brown water polo would not be where it is today. He has a sense of care that runs deeper than just a scoreboard. I think the longevity of having him around is very important for Brown water polo’s success. ”

Toby Espinosa '12
Toby Espinosa and Cyrus Mojdehi with Coach Felix Mercado in 2025
Espinosa and Mojdehi with Coach Felix Mercado at a Brown-Harvard water polo game in 2025.

Mojdehi was able to name Mercado’s office with his gift—it’s now officially called the Mojdehi Family Director of Water Polo Office. 

“It kind of started out as a joke,” he laughs. “But naming his office was really important to me. Felix took a chance on me—he believed I could get better through hard work and discipline, and that's exactly what happened. I wanted to recognize his willingness to take a chance on somebody that he saw the potential in, and make it possible for him to continue to do that for other athletes moving forward.”

Espinosa, who serves on the President’s Athletics Advisory Council, was also able to name a space through one of his gifts—he chose the Class of 2012 Team Meeting Room. 

“We were Felix’s first graduating class,” he says. “And we started off on rocky footing. We were a small team, just trying to find our way, without an endowment to protect us. We didn’t even have a pool. But every year since, the program has gotten stronger and stronger. I wanted to honor our class and how far the program has come.”

Brown's men's water polo team in 2009
Espinosa (top row, middle), Mojdehi (front row, far left), and Coach Felix Mercado (far right) with the rest of the water polo team in 2009.

 

Building the future of Brown Athletics through philanthropy

Donor support for varsity sports helps propel Brown’s championship-level programs forward. 

Supporting the Athletics Annual Fund is how many donors make an immediate impact on student-athletes, including by coming out in full force for the annual Bruno Gives Back Day. It’s this vital current-use giving—which means donations that can be put to work right away—that keeps Brown’s athletic programs in motion. These gifts power the daily efforts behind every practice, game, and big win for the Bears.

While annual giving continues to be as important as ever, building up team endowments—which provide steady, long-term funding—is also critical for sustaining the longevity and resilience of Brown Athletics. 

“An athletic endowment is more than a donation—it’s permanent funding that secures future opportunity. Endowments equip our student-athletes with the best coaches, the right equipment and facilities, and the chance to travel and compete at the highest level,” says M. Grace Calhoun ’92, Chancellor Samuel M. Mencoff ’78 Vice President for Athletics and Recreation. “That’s why strengthening team endowments—along with continuing to inspire annual giving—is a priority for Brown Athletics and Recreation. Donor support will enable our varsity teams to thrive—not just this year or next year, but for generations.”

“ An athletic endowment is more than a donation—it’s permanent funding that secures future opportunity. Endowments equip our student-athletes with the best coaches, the right equipment and facilities, and the chance to travel and compete at the highest level. ”

M. Grace Calhoun ’92 Chancellor Samuel M. Mencoff ’78 Vice President for Athletics and Recreation

As Brown raises funds for other varsity endowments, the success story of water polo serves as a blueprint. Brown is leading its peers, with $10.5 million raised for men’s and women’s water polo endowments at the close of the University’s BrownTogether campaign in 2024. Those funds have already enabled the program to expand—two full-time coaching positions were recently added, and there are now more travel resources to bring the Bears to California more often to compete against some of the nation’s strongest teams.

Behind this success and the impressive figures are alums like Espinosa and Mojdehi, who are not only investing in the program, but in the future student-athletes who will be forever changed by it, like they were. 

“The purpose of my gift is to motivate the next generation,” says Mojdehi. “I want the endowment to really build a legacy for the program.” 

Espinosa and Mojdehi are part of that legacy—because it’s about more than victories in the pool. The legacy of Brown water polo is about generations of teammates continuing to show up, cheering from the sidelines, and jumping in with their support.